Norm
Wizard
My FZ1 2003 Bee is up in the 170,000s Kilometers and I hardly use the clutch for upshifting and frequently do clutchless downshifting with no problems at all.
I am on the original clutch and I treat it like my wife, many riders thrash their clutch (wheelie lovers stuff theirs religiously)
Like all good bikes learn the feel of the bike, be gentle but positive, eventually the anxiety will wane and you will become friends with the monster between your legs (The bike that is)
All of this comes with time, practice and patience and one day you will hop on your ride and it will feel like part of you and that feeling will last forever and you will have entered the world of bliss.
May that time not be too far away.
I think the priest said something like this at our wedding.